{"id":1516,"date":"2004-03-03T01:33:00","date_gmt":"2004-03-03T01:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/2004\/03\/03\/last-key-ingredient-to-relationship\/"},"modified":"2015-06-19T00:26:20","modified_gmt":"2015-06-18T23:26:20","slug":"last-key-ingredient-to-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/2004\/03\/03\/last-key-ingredient-to-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>The last key ingredient to a relationship<\/h3>\n<p>both people have to want to be in it.  without that, you&#8217;re pretty much fxcked.<\/p>\n<h3>Differences between Need and Want<\/h3>\n<p>You could wake up one morning and realize that you&#8217;re <em>not<\/em> dependant on the loved one who is been irritating you.  And depending on what your life has looked like before that point, you could yell, &#8220;I don&#8217;t <em>need<\/em> you!&#8221; and chase that person out of your life.<br \/>\nBut that descision could lead to regret if you realize that you really <em>want<\/em> (but don&#8217;t need) that person in your life.  You could make yourself miserable.  Be forewarned.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The last key ingredient to a relationship both people have to want to be in it. without that, you&#8217;re pretty much fxcked. Differences between Need and Want You could wake up one morning and realize that you&#8217;re not dependant on the loved one who is been irritating you. And depending on what your life has &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/2004\/03\/03\/last-key-ingredient-to-relationship\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1516"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3768,"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1516\/revisions\/3768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.celesteh.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}